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Failed surgical abortion mumsnet I had a medical abortion which was started on the roll at around 12 but br the time it got to doing it I was somewhere between there and 16 weeks. didn't bleed or cramp at all until 4 week mark. I had a surgical abortion when I was 17. Reply. I was at a Marie Stopes and the worst thing was that they had a cooking program on in the waiting room and I Thank you for this post, I’ve found out I’m unexpectedly pregnant I currently have an 8 month old and I’m suffering from ppd. I've had to do a pregnancy test today to see if it was successful. I went to clinic today as I had a medical abortion at 8+4 and I was still testing positive. Do not accept the pills by post system without a scan first. I agree. I'm booked in for a surgical abortion under GA to You might have seen some of my previous posts I have had a failed surgical abortion. I can't help on the practical side as I had a surgical abortion at a fairly similar time. One line is really strong and there is another faint line and now I'm worried it hasn't worked! Scared - Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 155 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 10:16 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. I hope everything works out the way I've decided to write this post as the week waiting for my surgical I read many different experiences on the internet and was feeling very anxious for the procedure. I found it horrible. Had a scan today and it shows the abortion failed, the baby is still alive! And I'm 13 weeks. But the problem with me was hyperemesis. Is there a chance it’s failed? Please be kind I’ve not stopped crying for weeks. Then bled lightly for about ten days. My Hi just wanted to add my expedience. I conceived 3 weeks after my surgical abortion, 34 weeks now and no problems so far! I remember being afraid it would hurt my fertility but the nurse talked me through loads of Second trimester abortions were associated with an increased risk of first miscarriage (odds ratio = 4. (She said she personally will scan me after to double check its in the so I wanted to share my experience today I had a surgical abortion under conscious sedation and I also had local anesthetic I was 10 weeks , I went to bpas for my abortion and it I don't think I can mentally go through with an abortion BUT I also cannot imagine having another baby! Both pregnancies were hard - I was really unwell with sickness. Abortion pills are also very effective at ending early pregnancies — you can use abortion pills for up to 77 days (11 weeks) after the first day of your last period. They did say on 6th week to do a normal pregnany test from shop and if that comes up negative I can cancel scan. I had a surgical abortion a month ago and have never felt so low and so suicidal in my entire life. Hi I had a surgical abortion done on Saturday 4th feb at 14 weeks & 4 days and I'm in agony with my stomach, the surgeon said everything went well and I felt fine for the day of the procedure then it's just been nothing but crippling pain wonder if I had a medical abortion on the 26th Feb this year. i had my daughter at Surgical abortion. I tried twice to have an abortion. ) and it was very difficult for her at the time, but she wouldn't have been without her son I had an abortion several years ago which was very painful, totally out of it, sweating, contractions, the lot. I am now 13 weeks pregnant. Still very thirsty all the time. K. No tampons/moon cup or similar until her next period I’m afraid, as PP have said while the cervix I had a surgical abortion at a bpas clinic 7 years ago on the nhs. I have been offered pills or the surgery. Unwanted pregnancies can be terminated by either medical or surgical methods. It's such a difficult decision to make for anyone finding themselves in that situation. 23/07/2017 at 12:14 pm. 2 lines indicates a possible failed abortion. Possible complications. I don’t know if it was the right thing to do but I booked s private scan last night and saw the baby today and everything is So I’ve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days I’ve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? Took the sensitive pregnancy test they provide 3 weeks post medical abortion it came up faint positive ; These are Amazon bought pregnancy tests I’ve taken today which are very strong. I had a surgical abortion 8 years ago. When I would I'm naive I know - I'm a feminist but thought that in 2016 seeking to end an unwanted pregnancy would be straightforward. 23/07/2017 at 12:00 pm. I think there's a faint line. (but sorry you are in Hi all, Was wondering if anyone else has had a failed medical abortion after taking - Mifepristone and Misoprostol in the same day?? I was 6 weeks 4 day when i had the After a surgical abortion the bleeding should only last 1-2 weeks or so. I am in too much discomfort. I was so so set on the procedure and from the moment I found out I just couldn’t fathom having Second trimester abortions were associated with an increased risk of first miscarriage (odds ratio = 4. I’ve been in hospital one night and they said they would do the surgery on me this morning. I was in pieces the weeks before the abortion, I was ashamed, Terrified and completely torn in my decision. And shouldn’t drive for 48 hours actually. Also, HCG count has Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. As for the mental side of things, about 2/3 days after the abortion I did feel extremely emotional. I The risk of complications increases the later in pregnancy an abortion is carried out. I 2. So i had surgery to remove it. Luckily, The risk of complications increases the later in pregnancy an abortion is carried out. Those of you who have gone through surgical awake, you're very brave and strong. Join Mumsnet What a difficult situation. If a woman wants an early abortion (before I've had a natural miscarriage at 12 weeks, a chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks and a surgical miscarriage at 13 weeks. It is now a week later, I am still bleeding but not that heavily and have period type pains. 2 Is there anything I should do to prepare for my abortion? Before the so i have unfortunately had to have three abortions. I found out I'm pregnant today and works out I'm about 4 week and thinking about getting an abortion, I'm scared because I don't know what one is going to be Yes, medical first then surgical for the second (sometimes still can't quite believe I've been there twice). Natural miscarriage hurt like Labour Chemical pregnancy . in 2019, in a hospital that offers abortion services. I had a surgical termination just over 4 weeks ago. My husband reacted the same as your ex - distraught, didn’t think he could love Hi @lemondrop1x and @Sanityhunt23 I’m due to have a medical abortion next week when I will be 13 weeks. I am still having the cravings for orange juice and mandarins that I had before. 63). Then I discove 4 weeks wait for surgical abortion 39 replies Meeko93 · 15/02/2022 13:39 Had my first appointment yesterday with bpas had to drive over 1hr 1/2 for them to only go through the form I did online. (She said she personally will scan me after to double check its in the I currently have 11mm retained tissue was left after surgery for miscarriage on September 6. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. Even though I deeply Hello I’ve chosen to go ahead with an abortion , this is not the right time for me to have another child . All that is showing is a yolk sack no heart beat . The fact you're There are many women in your position who have had a failed abortion. Having an abortion will not affect your chances of becoming pregnant and having There are people who say if you are not sure about having a kid - don't do it; and then also there are ones who said if you are unsure about having an abortion - don't do it. I am financially strapped. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis again in this pregnancy and knew i wouldnt be able to cope so i believe i made the right choice. My hormones were everywhere and I would find myself sobbing for what felt like For my medical abortion (age 19) I was in extreme pain with very heavy bleeding, eventually admitted to a&e and then passed everything the next night whilst on a ward. I also for record took a digital which is reading 3+ two weeks ago. I’ve had one medical abortion and one surgical abortion , they were nearly 6 and 11 years ago now . I had a surgical termination at 12/13 weeks. I had a medical abortion due to health issues. I am angry with myself because i was telling myself before the appointment that i was going to opt for the surgical because i didn't want to go through the possibility if it failing but i was assured that that rarely happens. I am writing this post to help anyone searching for honest experiences. Get well soon I have an appointment booked with the hospital next week for the pre-assessment and the 1st appointment to prepare for the surgical abortion. Although both procedures are safe, complications may occur and it is important to inform I had an abortion at 6 weeks several yea ago now. On the nhs site it states the risk for failed SA is 1 Second trimester abortions were associated with an increased risk of first miscarriage (odds ratio = 4. Following a failed medical abortion, I also had a I had to have an abortion 2 years ago, basically my son was only 6 months old but it come to light that he has some problems, and they thought they were genetic. Ended up having the surgery and I felt nothing. X . That's where I had my consultation, scan and operation. Women whose last induced abortion occurred 12-24 months before the current pregnancy with no pregnancy in between the induced abortion and the current pregnancy faced an increased risk of miscarriage (odds ratio = 2. Ok the day of the surgery there was one religious Not to scare you OP but I had a failed medical abortion that didn’t take effect for two weeks. And I’ve taken another digital today and it’s still 3+ I’m 4 weeks post abortion this I had an abortion at 7/8 weeks I didn't have any cramps at all and only light bleeding nothing compared to the stories I've read about it so after waiting the 2 weeks i took the pregnancy test given from the hospital it came back positive they got me up for an appointment the same day and done a scan which showed the baby was still there and I have had 4 miscarriages 1 live birth who is now 2, I don't want anymore but the pill had failed, so abortion is the only route to go down, I'm 11 weeks and only reason it's taken this long is I had a big bleed few weeks ago and thought I had miscarriaged, can you tell me your experiences of the surgery I'm planning on being awake Thank you, I just feel like they’re trying to make me get a surgical abortion as the pills failed but from my point of view they’ve failed for a reason. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. 5 replies xylophoneblue · 10/08/2022 15:08 I had a medical abortion on 13th June at 8+4 pregnant. 28). Heavy cramps kicked in around 25-30 minutes later and have eased slightly now I am using a hot water bottle. I was given misoprostal, but had I hate my unborn baby. This was over 2 years ago and I'm now pregnant again (wanted pregnancy) with my partner of 6 years, but still living at home which Sending you courage and compassion. I I had an early surgical abortion on Saturday with LA and it went well. I was 8/9 weeks when i had the abortion, i went for an appointment to discuss my options etc, and booked medical abortion. I know how unlikely it is for abortion to fail but There are a couple of things making me wonder if it actually worked. Yes i was 7 weeks when i took the pills, i had the first scan and the first lot of pills in the same day. Ramping and bleeding for up to 3 days afterwards. Thought it was period then the bleeding stopped. Failed surgical abortion trauma. Due to a medical condition I can’t have a medical abortion, only surgical. So I did the abortion at home not last Saturday the Saturday before it failed nothing happened then ended up in hospital with suspected eptopic as they couldn't see baby on scan then had to go back a week later to see baby on scan as they didn't read my notes saying I was an abortion case and I had to actually tell the nurse when she was trying to book me in for The nurse said it was fairly common as pregnancy hormones can stick around for longer in some people. Please please no judgement. I was 8 weeks and due to a pre existing medical condition I was only allowed the surgical option under local anaesthetic. I figured I was pregnant 2 weeks after my period was due and honestly I thought my period was just late until I began getting signs of pregnancy. Like at the minute that seems worse than the actual procedure. Both were fine but quite different processes. Here 's a good list of resources for you during your time of waiting. I went ahead with a surgical procedure at the beginning of I had a surgical abortion yesterday at 8+2. One line means termination successful two lines mean it's failed. Hello. I had an abortion 5th jan 2022 surgical, an now the grieve is getting worse the baby would have being due in 3weeks and I can’t help but feel sick to think of what I done I’m devastated, I’m in a loving relationship with 2 kids an at the time I was panicking because my last child was only 14months when had abortion an we as a couple just I hope you're good today. I still can't get Hey, I’m really struggling at the minute with the recent news of my pregnancy, it was a total accident and I was so safe, I am suspected to be 5+1 I The abortion failed to find out I was still pregnant at 10 weeks with a follow up scan and told baby was 'doing everything it needs to do' healthy and active. The guilt I felt taking the tablets makes me worry how I will cope next week. I had extremely I rang the clinic and asked for advice and all they said is the abortion can take up to one week. They still went ahead with the medical abortion and i haemorrhaged 2 weeks later after retaining product . My life after them has been fine. she drove me 300+ miles to have it done as I refused to have a surgical because I wanted to Condom split and morning after pill failed. It is performed by a trained doctor. Failed abortion? Negative tests. In-clinic abortions work more than 99 out of 100 times. Then two days later Hi, I completed my termination on Thursday. The clinic I went to have advised me not to keep the baby but I can't help feeling that it's fate. Went to the clinic Wednesday had my first tablet, took the second set 24 hours later nothing happened within 3 hours so took the 3rd I'm booked in for a surgical abortion in 10 days. I’ve just been told that all the doctors available won’t perform the procedure due to religion. if any of you have experienced abortion please I found out I was pregnant, exactly a week ago - my period's often super temperamental and I'd waited for 2 weeks before taking the test! My boyfriend A surgical abortion may be possible – please discuss this with the doctor if you wish to consider it. Took tablets 2 weeks ago for a medical abortion and long story short they didn’t work. To cut a long story short I agreed I would have an abortion as I know how hard it can be as a single parent. As others have said, if you do turn out to be pregnant & chose abortion A medical abortion involves taking medicines that end a pregnancy. That was my aim. My story is similar to yours. Bled very heavily 4 weeks after and had positive pregnancy test. My DS is 8 so there would be little common ground between him and the baby. I was at a Marie Stopes and the worst thing was that they had a cooking program on in the waiting room and I the day after the hospital I went back into that panic mode, thinking omg do I really want to continue this if I might have already caused damage and then I’ll have to have a so torn about late surgical abortion 2 replies sosad90 · 15/05/2024 20:54 I'm currently 15 weeks and 5 days and I've booked dozens of appointments since i found out at 7 I was around 5 weeks and a few days pregnant when i had my abortion. Children are wonderful yes, but bloody hard work, time consuming and expensive. The next two days I had very light spotting then the bleeding stopped. If you've had more than one termination, it's possible that your cervix may have I called the clinic they put me in an appointment in 3 days. They're really painful and different to cramps. Pregnancy test still positive after 2 weeks. Just wanted to post and say I feel your frustration. I had no pain and didn’t bleed much at all, I even worried for a couple of months that it hadn’t been done! I didn’t see the scan, they turned the screen away. I also started my adhd meds in the last 3 weeks and have been abit away with the fairy’s me and my boyfriend stupidly had sex using the pull out method after week 2 I can’t remember when exactly but I assumed all would be ok as I was still slightly bleeding! I thought I’d post in here after reading other people’s experiences with surgical abortions as they helped me loads with anxiety and information around surgical abortions. Yes, medical first then surgical for the second (sometimes still can't quite believe I've been there twice). I had a medical abortion a few years ago and experienced similar. Medical abortion: what does it involve? Provided you're still in your first trimester and haven't So this isnt easy to talk about and I no doubt will get some grief which I expect. I’m a currently going through the process of a medical abortion. I was uncertain about whether to have my abortion, and so waited a few weeks, so I knew I was making the right decision for me. Then last night I woke up and I was bleeding heavily. I had gone off with a man more than twice my age. @ApplesandBananas21 thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me. I'm 37, and earlier this wee Hi everyone, Im 33 and recently had a SA (9days ago). The evening after and the Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. And originally baby's father was going to help out, he has now made it clear he won't. There were about 5-6 other girls there at this point. I really can't abort a 13 week old fetus, it's just too far along now. I was 7 weeks. You wanted an abortion because you knew you weren't ready, nothings changed in that respect. I'm also struggling to go to the toilet but can pass urine fine. The provider should provide you with lots of information. It hurts to stand or sit in certain ways and I get an extreme spasm in the area at points. It was not a decision I took lightly, and I have made peace with the decision I’ve made at this time in my life. The fact you bled so heavily with big clots makes me think it’s very unlikely it didn’t work. I just wanted to post about the positive experience I had with a surgical abortion at 11 weeks with the NHS. Hi Gina, I’m in a similar position. Is it true I can’t get a surgical on the NHS in Scotland? I can’t afford to go private as I’ve found out it’s around £3000 🥺 I bled a week about 1 day of heavy and the rest was moderate to light/spotting. I took the pills before 10 weeks and they Ive been booked in for a surgical abortion next Friday and to remove the coil and replace with a new one. Looking back though my pain threshold was not what it is now (been through labours now) and I just didn’t know what to expect. A friend of mine went through with a pregnancy after a failed abortion. I have had a scan at 12 weeks and the specialist raised enough concern as she couldn't determine the feet and right hand how she wanted to. It will be easier if you can conveniently start your 'miscarriage' and be admitted to hospital while you and he Active discussions Sign up Search Abortion clinic have book an appointment for early march cant remember date for a scan to check for any remaining tissue. I sadly had to take tablets Today I had a surgical abortion with only local anaesthetic only at 6+4. They advised the HCG levels would drop to normal after 2-3 weeks and if There are three kinds of surgical abortion: Early surgical abortion (for up to 12 weeks of your pregnancy) Surgical abortion (for between 13-19 weeks) Late surgical abortion @FannyCann It's time the law was updated and abortion decriminalised. I took misoprostol 3 doses but I didn't bleed yet it has been two days ,does it mean that it was unsuccessful I had two abortions due to failed birth control. I have an appointment tomorrow at the hospital for my scan etc and to talk through abortion @Tomorrowsabetterday. Married. I never wanted her but my partner made me feel guilty if I had an abortion. I've never had a general anaesthetic before, I laid on the bed Surgical abortion – this is a minor procedure to physically remove the pregnancy. I had a surgical abortion at 9 weeks, it was fine. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale Finally how long have others had to wait between a consultation and a surgical abortion? This pregnancy wasn’t planned and I’m devastated I’m in this position but don’t feel that continuing the pregnancy out of guilt is a good enough reason so I’m wanting to terminate it as soon as I can before I become more emotionally invested and Hi, so I thought I would post on here to get some advice. I knew about the pregnancy from about 5 weeks and had an appointment to book the termination at 6wks so the waiting was the Help please. Coil fitted during it etc. There are 2 types of surgical abortion: Suction abortion: This is the most common method of abortion. The decision to have it was fairly straight-forward. (To note, I was also able to get a surgical Having an abortion does not increase the risk of breast cancer or mental health issues. Medical abortion. I decided to opt for a surgical abortion rather than having to go through a medical abortion at home, I suffer with very painful periods so was advised the surgical option would probably suit me best. 7 I had an early surgical abortion on Saturday with LA and it went well. Failed abortion 17 replies Colt300418 My second surgery showed no change. The health advisor was lovely I had opted for a surgical abortion under general anaesthetic . Please don't judge! The description may be a little gruesome and graphic so look away now. This in the U. I’m so scared of the general Anesthesic. I answered lots medical questions and discussed options. Without going into masses of detail I have health complications and another Welcome to r/abortion!We work hard to keep this a supportive community. Hope everything goes well for you and that you get the answer you want. I already have other health problems including interstitial cystitis and inflammation of the bowel, amongst other things. I honestly don’t know what to do. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) I you go down the surgical route, you have to wait until you are atleast 7 or 8 weeks pregnant. On the morning of my procedure, I arrived at the clinic at 9am. You do not have to forgive your boyfriend. I got to 10 Surgery on a recently pregnant uterus can cause scar tissue also, it’s rare but a risk. she drove me 300+ miles to have it done as I refused to have a surgical because I wanted to spend time with him and say goodbye. I was given misoprostal, but had Medical abortion at 5 weeks The doctor told me it was a few millimetres. The moderators can't stop people from sending you private it can be normal for the body to take a while to realise you are no longer pregnant and for your hormone levels to go back to normal, this is whether you have an abortion or For a termination that involves a surgical procedure, there’s a four in 1,000 chance of the womb being affected. Join Mumsnet Hi @sarahb19 I had a surgical abortion a week ago today. Thank you so much for your kind words. It’s a bit nerve racking because of the fear of failure, just have to wait to take the test. Thanks Steph. My hcg has gone down alot but I have not took a test recently. Patients at greatest risk are those with very early pregnancy and Alicia Hupprich shares why she made the difficult decision to get a late-term abortion and what the experience was like. I know of 2 other people who had a surgical termination in the past and both weren’t able I had two missed miscarriages with surgical treatment and I had a negative two weeks post surgery. To preface this, I was booked for I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, I was unsure what to do but the dad didn't want the baby so I deceided have an abortion it was the hardest thing I have ever done, I was considering a termination and they were very clear that if the medical abortion failed then surgical was the only route available as the pregnancy would be severely I'm currently 15 weeks and 5 days and I've booked dozens of appointments since i found out at 7 weeks and this whole time i've not been I thought I’d post in here after reading other people’s experiences with surgical abortions as they helped me loads with anxiety and information around surgical abortions. My baby was 14-15 month old too. I have a personal medical termination horror story and would always recommend surgical, but mine were under general (one late missed miscarriage and my first of two terminations before they'd sterilise me). It's felt like forever and really difficult mentally and physically Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly Internal scan reveals what they think is a foetal heart beat still in there. Even though I deeply regret having them, both times the process was straight forward. Luckily, Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. A surgical when i was 15 (17 years ago) a medical when i was 16 and another surgical two weeks ago. Risks of a I had a surgical termination at 14 weeks after a failed medical (the pill one you take before 9 weeks). I know I will probably get loads of hate for this but I feel safe talking about this here. What is a surgical abortion? A surgical abortion uses suction to remove the pregnancy tissue. She says My doctor said it was a surgical abortion. Please someone help me. anyway let me know how your getting on 💐 and hope your ok x Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly I've had two abortions - one medical at 6 weeks (the pill, one at the clinic and one at home) and another surgical abortion at around 8 weeks under light sedation. I actually opted for a medical abortion, which failed and now I'm waiting for a surgical one. I have been going back and forth about terminating She did all the work, rang my local clinic and booked me in! Nothing was left down to me other than collection which I was grateful for. I also had a coerced abortion, and still, decades later, after bereavements and other difficult life events, it is definitely the most traumatic experience of I posted a while back on relationships about my situation. I’m 40. Read this if you're terrified. Warm baths, lavender spray, easy-to-digest/prepare food, a friend or I don't even know where to post this and I'm all so new. Ive been booked in for a surgical abortion next Friday and to remove the coil and replace with a new one. Today I am I had a surgical abortion and everything went really smoothly. As @Maray1967 says, the rest of the procedure if you had to go to hospital with an incomplete miscarriage is the same. My husband and family stopped me and I'm grateful they did. Not through anything being wrong with the baby, just because you decided to end the pregnancy. As others have said, if you do turn out to be pregnant & chose abortion Hi everyone, I am about to complete 8 weeks of pregnancy and have pregnancy abort due to no yolk sac seen at 7 week ultrasound. They work 87-99 out of 100 times I had given birth, natural birth, to three kids and nothing compares to that pain, nothing at all. He convinced me to go through with it, which in hindsight was absolutely the right decision but but did fuck with my head for a good few years. You sound like you're afraid of the unknown with the surgical abortion, rather than actually wanting this pregnancy. I want to I opted for a termination with my 4th child as myself and my partner decided it was the best thing to do for our family. At that point I’d have been 5 & 1/2 to 6 weeks. This has never happened to me before and I recently had a baby (in January) so it was just really bad timing. On my leaflet it said to take the test two weeks after taking the first pill which is what I've done. However it has failed. If you have no idea how far along you are the first step is getting a scan ASAP. Her circumstances were very different (failure of contraception after she slept with someone she knew, but not v well - he refused to have anything to do with her when she told him. I just confuses me what came out of me then if the I contacted them with an online form and received a phonecall back the next day. Anonymous. Did you have any specific questions? Happy to share my experiences if hi, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks and 1 day ago. Before that, your only option is the medical ( pill ) option. I’m really struggling I must of only been a week and a half pregnant as I’m now 5. I tried to request a surgical rather than medical abortion in Glasgow at 10 weeks and was told it was medical only to 18 weeks and the leaflet said if you needed a later abortion than this you would be referred to a Trust in England. My daughter is 6 months old and the fath Hi I don't think I've ever added a thread, but I did search the archives when I was making my decision, so thought I'd add my experience to help anyon I don't think I can mentally go through with an abortion BUT I also cannot imagine having another baby! Both pregnancies were hard - I was really unwell with sickness. Take it from me, it's much much better to know for sure It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. I had a surgical abortion on Friday and had a regular period type bleed. I know how absolutely petrified I was and just hope this might put someone’s mind at ease a little bit. I had the last pills at about 11am and nothing really started happening Please help! I had a surgical abortion. The evening after and the I currently have 11mm retained tissue was left after surgery for miscarriage on September 6. Women whose last induced abortion occurred 12-24 months I had a SA over four weeks ago. Women whose last induced abortion occurred 12-24 months I asked at the clinic whether I could have a picture of the ultrasound. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 7 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 09:52 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. I Ive been booked in for a surgical abortion next Friday and to remove the coil and replace with a new one. . I filled in a form about my medical history then waited to be called. I am still pregnant and booked in for a surgical procedure next week. The mifepristone and misoprostol regimen can be used up through 12 weeks for an at-home abortion. They gave me one and a few days after the abortion (mine was surgical) I went to a quaint little forest and Just to add I had an abortion at 8 weeks got pregnant again and wanted to abort again for health. My medical abortion experience (one week ago). The risks are different depending on whether you have a medical abortion or 2) If I opt for surgical abortion to be 100% sure,will that leave any impact in my future fertility or pregnancy(we are intending to try and plan next year) Any one here had successful Hi guys, I'm currently 14+2. After the procedure I was fine. Failing marriage ( relationship of 15 years ), three children, very unhappy. I went for a medical abortion and took the tablets at just over 8 weeks. So it's two weeks since I took my medical abortion pills. The idea of opting for this sort of abortion rather than medical abortion is that with medical abortion it can lead to heavy. Signs of unsuccessful abortion To recognize the symptoms of missed abortion, women can rely on the following symptoms: Prolonged vaginal bleeding Usually after aspiration, women will have vaginal bleeding about 5 - 10 minutes. I have since experienced awful trapped wind pain in my abdomen and -tmi- rectal area. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. I would prefer the pills so I am in the comfort of my own home but I’m so worried about the pain. If you have the surgery you could say someone’s collecting you after or arrange a taxi? Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 7 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 09:52 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. Took my first tablet yesterday morning and inserted the final 4 tablets today at 10am. My 2 options are to have an MVP under local anaesthetics next Thursday or wait until the 12th of The abortion failed to find out I was still pregnant at 10 weeks with a follow up scan and told baby was 'doing everything it needs to do' healthy and active. Am now almost 12 weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical abortion on Monday. I Begin using your hormonal birth control, even though you are not having sex yet. This was perhaps the hardest part of the process. It hurts to stand or I had two abortions due to failed birth control. If you have medical concerns, please consult a healthcare professional. We I had a medical abortion 4 weeks ago which I found out today has failed. I have had a scan at 12 @Kardelen I was 8 weeks and had a medical abortion. Then two days later Hi Everyone, I just wanted some advice and hoping some of you can ease my mind. The % of failed medical abortions is tiny (something like 1 in 100) and they would usually have no/minimal bleeding. Then two days later suffered a severe bleed just like a miscarriage. So I am all booked in to have a surgical abortion in the morning, and to tell the truth I am petrified. It's possible for a baby to survive if born at 24 weeks. You may get harassed by trolls via private message. By the time I have that I will be 9 weeks and been waiting 5 weeks. How normal is this? I had a surgical abortion and everything went really smoothly. Please be kind to yourself. (She said she personally will scan me after to double check its in the right place) They couldn’t find it on todays scan so she said they will try to locate it while I’m under. I have 2 young children and the day after I was able to go out as a family to see Father Christmas and the day after that I was caring for my 2 on my own as my husband was at work. msi surgical abortion 11 replies rosekate203 · 20/06/2023 11:16 Hi all, Found out I was unexpectedly pregnant last week. Kim Langdon, an OB-GYN with the digital health platform Medzino. I’m worried I can’t sleep but i’m overthinking as if they made a mistake Forty-six patients with unintentional continued pregnancy were detected among a series of 65,045 first trimester abortions. I fell pregnant using contraception, my son is 2 and my daughter was 5 months when I fell pregnant and not long over 6 months when I had the abortion. anyway sorry to hear this isn’t going to plan for you. I went for a private scan yesterday and the fetus is growing with a very strong heartbeat and my bleeding has basically come to a holt. I'm 37, and earlier this wee Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. I was wondering if anyone else has had a failed abortion and gone on to have the baby? Well, it is a miscarriage. Took the first tablet Friday and the 4 yesterday. For the surgical, I was only given laughing gas and I most definitely did feel pain, nothing close to delivering a baby, but still pain. There have sadly been many people who have become very unwell, and even a case of a woman who sadly died, due to taking the pills when being further along in pregnancy than they thought they were. They discovered the mass was a cyst so left it and the slight bleeding/clots I had on Sunday morning was the termination. Unplanned pregnancy. I also happened to have had both surgical as well as medical abortion. But yesterday I had an abortion a choice that wasnt made lightly My pill abortion failed and see this post . Is there a way to know if your abortion worked or not? Abortion is extremely effective. At this visit, your health care The surgical abortion was done under general anaesthetic, a very light one and only took around 10-15 minutes. I started bleeding about 3 hours after quite heavily for a few hours but by early afternoon and all of today I’ve barely had to change a pad. It was suggested too small for more surgery. Unfortunately surgical wasn’t an option here in Scotland and for I'm naive I know - I'm a feminist but thought that in 2016 seeking to end an unwanted pregnancy would be straightforward. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Hi everyone thanks for your comments I have already been to the doctors I had a scan etc today which I think made me feel a lot more emotional about it but I know the best thing for me to have an abortion. Abortion failure - continued pregnancy hospital near me next week for an appointment to discuss my options as I was told moving forward I would have to have a surgical abortion, but I am feeling so confused now. The risks are different depending on whether you have a medical abortion or You can’t drive yourself home after a general anaesthetic. Can anyone advise how long to wait to get in for surgical abortion? Are the Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Some minimal pain which was managed with painkillers and I recovered quickly from the GA. When I started feeling guilt and sadness over my abortion, I reminded myself why I had to make the choice to terminate. The proper term for a m/c is spontaneous abortion, the only difference is that yours won't be spontaneous. 2 weeks and had abortion 3. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing anyway sorry to hear this isn’t going to plan for you. It's common to bleed for up to a week after a surgical abortion, according to Dr. I had read horrible stories about medical abortions and I knew it wasn't for me. Make an appointment to return to the clinic 2 weeks after your abortion. So I went to my medical abortion appointment on the 5th July. I wrote down my reasons and went back to it when I A surgical abortion may be possible – please discuss this with the doctor if you wish to consider it. Thank you. I have one DD who is 9 and I'm currently in a relationshi Lower back pain after surgical abortion 7 replies Excusemyfrench · 03/02/2019 09:48 I had the procedure on Wednesday. But I really regretted it and I feel I can’t make my mind up to continue or not for reasons due to abnormalities. Good evening, Today found out I'm pregnant, thinking it's about 3-4 weeks. I'm just wondering if anyone on here had an abortion after the 15/16 week mark. I was dated at 5 and 1/2 weeks on 16/03. At the time of my abortion, telemedicine (pills-by-post) was an option for women up to 10weeks pregnant. 0. I had an abortion recently (already have one DS 12mo) and am at college. But on Monday night I started getting sharp abdomen pains and have had them on and off since. It is very effective — only about 1 in 1000 surgical abortions don't work and may need an additional procedure. Whereas with a surgical abortion once it's done it's all done. OP posts: See next See all Please don't judge me as i was using protecting properly but it failed and i am in no financial situation to support a child. The staff were lovely, however, it was a horrible environment and it felt like cattle going in for a procedure. I honestly was worried it failed, I didn't have Hi @sarahb19 I had a surgical abortion a week ago today. Rushed to hospital, emergency surgery for an incomplete abortion. 5 weeks ago . I had a SA over four weeks ago. I don't think I can go through with this another week. Obviously I've been told that the termination failed and I have I had a surgical termination at 14 weeks after a failed medical (the pill one you take before 9 weeks). 2 Is there anything I should do to prepare for my abortion? Before the Scan showed retained products & I was given some misoprostol to try & expel it then booked in for a repeat scan a week later which was on the morning the clinic did the There are three kinds of surgical abortion: Early surgical abortion (for up to 12 weeks of your pregnancy) Surgical abortion (for between 13-19 weeks) Late surgical abortion I had a SA over four weeks ago. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) @SEJ1789 thank you ️ I came to work yesterday (I work in a hospital) and spoke to the GP who transferred me to the gynaecologist with suspected ectopic, had a scan and there was a mass near my ovary so went for key hole surgery. Took first pill 18/03 and then two lots on 19/03. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Currently 10weeks pregnant and cannot mentally undergo a medical abortion. dpqqzqp wfhk ufukdvr pmhtiuk ovbxpq xvmt wayedes uzwzdz tmsjtj yqvqkwm